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The ‘friend zone’. That was my relegated place in the world of women. I’d always try to win their friendship to earn their trust and attention. Eventually, my logic went, they’d see me more as ‘just friends’- I’m the good guy after all. Girls were always complaining about the jerks they dated, but oddly enough, they seemed to prefer that type over me. I just couldn’t figure it out: if girls really want ‘nice’ guys like they say they do, why does the ‘bad boy’ always win?
I met Amy my sophomore year of college. Tall, redheaded, curvy body- a total package. She was an art major but had to take a math class as part of our school’s curriculum. I had the fortune of sitting beside her in class, and sure enough, one day she finally uttered those magical words: “Do you, like, get this stuff? I’m not a math person at all.” I’d be her hero and get the girl through being her personal tutor. I didn’t really know how to flirt with a girl over text or at parties like everyone else was doing to get laid, but I figured I could seduce her with my nice-guy attitude.
Eventually, we started meeting at her place in the afternoons to go over homework. I noticed that I was doing more and more work for her, but figured that if she liked me around she must like me as a guy too. I decided to make my move. I stared into her eyes for a few seconds, closed mine, and leaned in for the kiss.
“Uh, sorry. I really like you, but I just want to be friends,” she muttered awkwardly. I knew then that my nice guy routine had to quit.
In my search for seduction advice, I found a community of guys just like me that wanted to become more successful with women. Somebody mentioned Steve Scott’s book, “Flirt Mastery: How to Flirt and Create Hypnotic Conversations with Women”, so I figured, “Why not? I don’t have anything else to lose in my sex life.”
As I read, I started seeing the light that I was blind to for so long. Steve’s insight into the female mind is absolutely incredible. That’s really what he teaches us: sexual chemistry and emotional connection is all in the brain.
After I finished reading, I started my journey as a new man. I used the advice in Steve’s book to learn how to flirt over text, the phone, and even at parties. I immediately saw a huge difference- girls started approaching me, and before you know it, Amy’s curiosity was piqued at all the attention I was getting. Jealous, maybe? By that time, though, I’d forgotten all about her because I wasn’t hung up on what only one girl thought anymore.
Steve’s system helped me move past my hang-ups about girls and learn how to engage in conversation that will leave them craving more. If you’re an average ‘nice guy’ that never gets any flirty or sexual attention from girls, Steve’s book is literally like unlocking a treasure chest with all the secrets of seduction you’ll ever need for learning how to flirt over text, the phone, or in social situations with a girl.